End-of-Life Planning

The statistics are sobering: 82% of people say it’s important to put their end-of-life wishes in writing; 23% have actually done it. 60% of people say that making sure their family is not burdened by tough decisions is “extremely important”—but 56% have not communicated their end-of-life wishes. 90% of people say they prefer to die at home, yet 70% die in a hospital, nursing home, or long-term care facility.

We need to quit ignoring it, and take charge of our end-of-life wishes. Here are some resources*—forms, questions and information—designed to help.


  • The Advance Care Planning resource list, compiled by The Conversation Project, has links to a broad array of public resources that can educate you about options and decisions, then help you think through your personal choices.
  • From Aging with Dignity, Five Wishes is a living will written in straightforward language; it can help start and structure important conversations about care in times of serious illness.
  • Best Endings is a website packed with information, links and definitions, this is a great place to get a working understanding of the things you need to consider.
  • The Conversation Project offers a starter kit that walks you through "The Conversation"—with yourself. It helps you think through what is important to you; based on that self-knowledge you can make more informed decisions about your own end-of-life care.
  • Engage with Grace has a single slide; it contains five questions. The point is that most people haven't answered these. The idea is to easily prompt a conversation—and spread the word.
  • For Health Care Proxies/Agents: Making Decisions for Someone Else: A How To Guide, published by American Bar Association Commission on Law and Aging, can be an aid and comfort to those trying to do the best by someone they love.
  • PREPARE is a website with step-by-step instructions—often illustrated by video interviews—that walk you through the key decisions and actions involved in end-of-life planning.


  • The legally approved format for Advanced Directives, also known as a Living Will, varies by state; click the link to download the correct form for your state.
  • A Do Not Resuscitate form tells medical personnel not to use emergency lifesaving techniques, such as CPR and ventilators. It does not prevent general treatment.
  • A bare bones Healthcare Power of Attorney, legal in most states, lets you officially decide who can make healthcare decisions on your behalf if you are not able to.

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